I know C, C++, Python, Javascript, PHP and know wich one to use to hack. If it was you, choose one and tell me the direction how to build hacking programs please

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Like how do i find breaches in servers and databases?

dude, hacking is illegal 😕 .

I don't want to hack the NASA, i just want to learn, i'm a web programmer, api's, mobile and web applications have pentesters for this, to seek for vulnerabilities and show to enterprises

I know french, Russian and Spanish. I can not speak any of it

Hacking is haram

First you must buy a usb rubber ducky, only then can you learn the art of hacking the NASA and database server.

Best way to learn hacking is to first learn computer science and IT. Once you have an understanding of how things work underneath the hood, hacking seems trivial. Most people make the mistake of trying to learn hacking before learning programming and computer science, which is like trying to learn physics before math -- you won't get far.

I can't really say since I only do software development, but I would probably start by taking a cyber security course or watching youtube videos

You have on udemy  a lot of good hacking courses. Start with it

Yes Udemy courses are good start