I'm 29 and never dated anyone because of my small penis

So...yeah. I've never actually told anyone about this.

For one, I work in Finance. Specifically I trade commodities at a global investment bank in a large city. It's incredibly unusual for people in my profession to actually have never dated/kissed anyone by 29. Most of my co-workers tend to talk about their sexual escapades with women, and I've always pretended that I've had the same experiences and would pitch in with my own personal "made-up" stories.

I've always been insecure of my body and my penis size my entire life, and have basically tried my entire life to overcompensate by spending all of my time studying, getting into the best college, and aggressively pursuing the career path that will pay the most for my skillset.

I've been very fortunate, as I've had some big bonuses in my career. This is basically me entirely compensating for my small size, as I've done nothing but work for the past 8 years, 12-16 hours a day. I have 750k USD saved between my IRA/401k/taxable account, a fully paid off 2020 BMW M3, and a 550k house which I still owe 220k on (8 years left on the mortgage). I've very lucky, I don't have to save any more for retirement and I'll be able to have more than enough once I'm in my sunset years.

However, I still can't for the life of me have the confidence to talk to women romantically. I can speak with women perfectly fine in a professional setting, but I've just never been able to get over the mental roadblock for sexual escalation. Too much embarrassment for people to find out that not only do I have a small penis, but at 29, have literally had zero sexual experience.

I've always taken the "you'll meet someone" at heart, but I guess I'll just have to keep grinding at work to get this off my mind. Maybe something will happen down the line, but it's a bit disappointing that after working for 8 years, I'm still the same exact spot as I was when I was in high school romantically, with just a lot more money.

Thanks for listening. Just wanted to tell someone about this. The funny thing is not even my family or my closest friends know.

i agree that women now only love men with big penis

It's not about the size, it's how you use it

Size does not matter bros. Practice how to use it effectively. Sex is 90% psychology. Also remove the depressing thoughts of small. Lastly, you can also increase the size via natural methods

Maybe you can get some money for a penis enlargement operation.

its ok bro, i also have a 4 inch dick. fuck bitches... :(

(April 2, 2022, 08:47 AM)way2high Wrote: I'm 29 and never dated anyone because of my small penis

So...yeah. I've never actually told anyone about this.

For one, I work in Finance. Specifically I trade commodities at a global investment bank in a large city. It's incredibly unusual for people in my profession to actually have never dated/kissed anyone by 29. Most of my co-workers tend to talk about their sexual escapades with women, and I've always pretended that I've had the same experiences and would pitch in with my own personal "made-up" stories.

I've always been insecure of my body and my penis size my entire life, and have basically tried my entire life to overcompensate by spending all of my time studying, getting into the best college, and aggressively pursuing the career path that will pay the most for my skillset.

I've been very fortunate, as I've had some big bonuses in my career. This is basically me entirely compensating for my small size, as I've done nothing but work for the past 8 years, 12-16 hours a day. I have 750k USD saved between my IRA/401k/taxable account, a fully paid off 2020 BMW M3, and a 550k house which I still owe 220k on (8 years left on the mortgage). I've very lucky, I don't have to save any more for retirement and I'll be able to have more than enough once I'm in my sunset years.

However, I still can't for the life of me have the confidence to talk to women romantically. I can speak with women perfectly fine in a professional setting, but I've just never been able to get over the mental roadblock for sexual escalation. Too much embarrassment for people to find out that not only do I have a small penis, but at 29, have literally had zero sexual experience.

I've always taken the "you'll meet someone" at heart, but I guess I'll just have to keep grinding at work to get this off my mind. Maybe something will happen down the line, but it's a bit disappointing that after working for 8 years, I'm still the same exact spot as I was when I was in high school romantically, with just a lot more money.

Thanks for listening. Just wanted to tell someone about this. The funny thing is not even my family or my closest friends know.

I hope I'm not wasting my energy typing on this post, because I know you are a banter master like kilob and could possibly be trolling..
However, optimistically, I will share my thoughts.

As stated above by someone in the replies, as long as you don't have a dam micro penis it's actually not that big of an issue man.
Believe it or not, females on average are more worried about a mans height. Shortness in a man seems to be the one undeniable turnoff for most neurotypical females. (Some women that adore men in a cute /fem way don't care about height, but those girls are a minority of course.)

But even then.. you can have looks, money, height, physique, everything that is considered desirable, but if the girl doesn't feel like you are "interesting" to her or she sees you as a dick she'll probably avoid you anyway. Now that's generalizing, right.

What about dating in relevance to today's world? Fucking mess, it's materialistic and so watered down/fake. It really does feel like a world of clones, but I can assure you that there's a woman out there thinking the same way I am right now. I know this because I dated one, she set the bar so high that I'm not sure I'll ever find someone like her again. But yeah man, it's out there.

And about your size issue, you could also just have performance anxiety. I personally can't get hard to a watered down generic ass hoe. Maybe with porn but not irl. My picky attraction comes from intelligence+aesthetic+kinks+cuteness, and that's very hard to satisfy in this tinder world.

When you come across someone that makes you feel like you're not even trying, like you're just being you, it all gets easy and feels organic.
Goodluck to you man, cheers

(April 2, 2022, 08:51 AM)xam Wrote: As long as you don't have a micropenis, I'm sure you can find a woman that'll be willing to marry you. Good luck!

This.

(April 2, 2022, 09:03 AM)rftuietvoy Wrote: i agree that women now only love men with big penis

Not everyone is a whore.

(April 2, 2022, 11:12 AM)Anitta Wrote: It's not about the size, it's how you use it

Meh, I'd say size does still matter, at least just a little bit.

(April 2, 2022, 05:17 PM)19689p Wrote: Size does not matter bros.  Practice how to use it effectively. Sex is 90% psychology.  Also  remove the depressing thoughts of small. Lastly, you can also increase the size via natural methods

Oh come on, seriously? You're trying to sell us your penis enlargement story now? Ridiculous.

(April 2, 2022, 05:22 PM)raid Wrote: Maybe you can get some money for a penis enlargement operation.

That's fucking disgusting.

(April 2, 2022, 10:50 PM)xbdm Wrote: its ok bro, i also have a 4 inch dick. fuck bitches... :(

No, I don't want to "fuck bitches", fucking bitches is disgusting.

(April 3, 2022, 12:19 PM)griimnak Wrote:

(April 2, 2022, 08:47 AM)way2high Wrote: I'm 29 and never dated anyone because of my small penis

So...yeah. I've never actually told anyone about this.

For one, I work in Finance. Specifically I trade commodities at a global investment bank in a large city. It's incredibly unusual for people in my profession to actually have never dated/kissed anyone by 29. Most of my co-workers tend to talk about their sexual escapades with women, and I've always pretended that I've had the same experiences and would pitch in with my own personal "made-up" stories.

I've always been insecure of my body and my penis size my entire life, and have basically tried my entire life to overcompensate by spending all of my time studying, getting into the best college, and aggressively pursuing the career path that will pay the most for my skillset.

I've been very fortunate, as I've had some big bonuses in my career. This is basically me entirely compensating for my small size, as I've done nothing but work for the past 8 years, 12-16 hours a day. I have 750k USD saved between my IRA/401k/taxable account, a fully paid off 2020 BMW M3, and a 550k house which I still owe 220k on (8 years left on the mortgage). I've very lucky, I don't have to save any more for retirement and I'll be able to have more than enough once I'm in my sunset years.

However, I still can't for the life of me have the confidence to talk to women romantically. I can speak with women perfectly fine in a professional setting, but I've just never been able to get over the mental roadblock for sexual escalation. Too much embarrassment for people to find out that not only do I have a small penis, but at 29, have literally had zero sexual experience.

I've always taken the "you'll meet someone" at heart, but I guess I'll just have to keep grinding at work to get this off my mind. Maybe something will happen down the line, but it's a bit disappointing that after working for 8 years, I'm still the same exact spot as I was when I was in high school romantically, with just a lot more money.

Thanks for listening. Just wanted to tell someone about this. The funny thing is not even my family or my closest friends know.

I hope I'm not wasting my energy typing on this post, because I know you are a banter master like kilob and could possibly be trolling..
However, optimistically, I will share my thoughts.

As stated above by someone in the replies, as long as you don't have a dam micro penis it's actually not that big of an issue man.
Believe it or not, females on average are more worried about a mans height. Shortness in a man seems to be the one undeniable turnoff for most neurotypical females. (Some women that adore men in a cute /fem way don't care about height, but those girls are a minority of course.)

But even then.. you can have looks, money, height, physique, everything that is considered desirable, but if the girl doesn't feel like you are "interesting" to her or she sees you as a dick she'll probably avoid you anyway. Now that's generalizing, right.

What about dating in relevance to today's world? Fucking mess, it's materialistic and so watered down/fake. It really does feel like a world of clones, but I can assure you that there's a woman out there thinking the same way I am right now. I know this because I dated one, she set the bar so high that I'm not sure I'll ever find someone like her again. But yeah man, it's out there.

And about your size issue, you could also just have performance anxiety. I personally can't get hard to a watered down generic ass hoe. Maybe with porn but not irl. My picky attraction comes from intelligence+aesthetic+kinks+cuteness, and that's very hard to satisfy in this tinder world.


When you come across someone that makes you feel like you're not even trying, like you're just being you, it all gets easy and feels organic.
Goodluck to you man, cheers

Absolutely everything you said is entirely correct. I don't know if I should be asking more about your personal life though, I just know I wouldn't be able to keep on living if I think I find love then it doesn't last forever. It's all or nothing for me, and I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks this way.

my cock is huge

But seriously, are there an medication for enlargement?